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Seductive Song? Cast Your Vote!

Posted in Fun, Life, Music with tags , , , , , , , , , on December 2, 2008 by victorbiola

The poll has commenced. As by today you can vote for your favourite seductive song. See <Vote For Your Favourite Seductive Song> to read the original post or for more information.


… Let us look at the more erotic moments in our lives. You have arrived home after a fun night out. You have had a great time dancing with friends and asked the crush of the past weeks back home to your place. You are both sitting on the sofa sipping on a glass of wine and chatting. Your eyes meet constantly and you are feeling shy and exhilarated at once. You feel excited and decide to put on some music that will help you to seduce your prey…

donna-summerWhat song will you play?

What songs do you like to listen to when you are with your lover? What songs get you both in the mood? What songs do you put on to get you and your lover in the right mood?

I would like to invite you to share your favourite seductive, sexy, erotic song with us. Leave a reply with your song title and band/singer and it will be excepted in the poll.
(leave a song title as well or I will not be able to enter just a singer in the poll…)

The poll has commenced!

Vote in the poll below or write a comment to add a song. 


Title – Singer

(the numbers are just entry numbers not the vote!!!)

  1. Je t’aime – Serge Gainsbourg and Jane Birkin
  2. Can’t Get Enough Of Your Love Babe – Barry White
  3. Sexual Healing – Marvin Gaye
  4. Oops (Oh My) – Tweet (feat Missy Elliott)
  5. Work (Freemasons Mix) – Kelly Rowland
  6. Rock Your Baby – George McCrae
  7. Love to Love You Baby – Donna Summer
  8. More Than A Woman – Bee Gees
  9. Love Theme – Barry White and Love Unlimited (thanks Jeannette)
  10. It’s A Fire – Portishead (thanks Choi)
  11. Humming – Portishead
  12. Bolero – Ravel
  13. In The Air Tonight – Phil Collins
  14. Rock Your Body – Justin Timerlake (???)
  15. Let’s Stay Together – Al Green  elis-regina
  16. In A Manner of Speaking – Nouvelle Vague
  17. Same Mistake – James Blunt (thanks Shane)
  18. Candyshop – 50 Cent (??? Saaaam???)
  19. Underwater Love – Smoke City
  20. Águas de Março – Tom Jobim & Elis Regina
  21. Wicked Game – Chris Isaak (thanks Declan)
  22. Careless Whisper – Wham
  23. Sensual Woman – Herbaliser
  24. Crown Royal on Ice – Jill Scott
  25. Stroke You Up – Changing Faces
  26. Secret Lover – The Isley Brothers
  27. Slow Dance – Keri Hilson
  28. The Naughty Song – Cory Lee
  29. I’d Like To – Corinne Bailey Rae
  30. I’ll Make Love to You – Boys II Men
  31. Forever Mine – The O’Jays
  32. Show and Tell – Al Wilson
  33. Wishing You Were Here – Chicago
  34. Hold You In My Arms – Ray LaMontagne
  35. Whisper – Morphine
  36. Natural HIgh – Bloodstone
  37. Come To Me – Otis Redding
  38. Sex – Nathaniel Merriweather (Sorry, I could not find it on YouTube)
  39. Closer – Ralph Myerz and the Jack Herren Band
  40. Doin’ It – LL Cool J
  41. Nobody – Keith Sweat
  42. Love Serenade – Barry White (‘I don’t wanna see no panties’…’)
  43. That’s The Way Love Goes – Janet Jackson
  44. Closer – Goapele
  45. Give Me The Night – George Benson
  46. Hot Number – Anthony Franklin
  47. You’re The Best – Larry Joseph Project
  48. Shine – Luther Vandross
  49. All Night Long – Mary Jane Girls


Beautiful Seduction

Posted in Fun, Life with tags , , , , , , , on November 11, 2008 by victorbiola

It is always interesting to see how individuals differ, yet how strongly we are being influenced by the media. A previous post is asking viewers and readers to submit their favourite seductive song.

See: Vote For Your Favourite Seductive Song

Everyone has a right to an opinion; just funny to see how far we do differ on the topic. Some people seem to mistake the art of seduction with chopping meat up for the bbq.


How we are worlds apart in our headspaces and souls… There is a big difference between eating out of a tin or just placing food on a plate or actually arranging a meal on a plate, beautifully presented, deliciously placed. Making an effort can be effortless as not making an effort. Going out of your way will bring you past new ideas and thoughts. By making a difference you show that you care. That is seductive.

I would liken seductive, sensual, enticing to a person unwrapping a desert, slowly with anticipation while listening to the sound of the unwrapping…

The art of seduction is a process of encounters, slight touches of skin, as if accidental, a process of appreciation. Seduction is as well about respect, respect for the moment, yourself and the opposite. Seduction is beauty in itself, it is flirtatious…


Lately I have heard friends complaining about encounters where the opposite was to obsessed by dirty talk and being rough, actually being treated that way. I feel that there is a place for that and where two people with the capacity to decide make a decision to do something together, then it is fine. It just gets so boring when you feel that being desensitised is the new fashion.

I could go on about it and also speak about the degradation of good film scripts, with most movies produced using swear words and coarse language. What happened to the good scripts?

I guess the fact that dirty talk and swearing has reached the main stream is what makes it so boring and main stream! Seduction is back! ‘It is not what I see that excites me, but what remains hidden.’ Victor Biola (someone will claim it to be said by someone before me…)

Well, that is what Victor Biola thinks…

Comments, responses and thoughts are very welcome